Sunday, November 28, 2021

Saturday, November 27, 2021

trust and love

 

I know you’re scared to trust anyone again and I understand why, I truly do.
I realize you’ve been hurt so badly before and you just don’t know if you can give yourself fully to anyone, ever again.
I’m here, standing before you telling you that I don’t have any expectations of you...I don’t want anything more than your time.
I know you’re worth any amount of time and I’m willing to do whatever it takes to earn your trust and love..no matter how long that may be.
I’ve never met a more wonderful person with a beautiful soul- from the moment we met, you’ve amazed me with everything you are.
I know your walls are high and your heart is guarded, and I don’t blame you because I understand why.
I don’t know exactly how you feel, but I’ve been in a similar place and I’m committed to sharing all of who I am with you..
My hopes, my dreams, my fears, my vulnerabilities- everything that makes me ..me.
I know neither of us is perfect, but with time, patience, communication and love, I believe we might just find the perfect love story.
It won’t be easy, but then, nothing worth having ever is.
So, I stand before you, beholden and open,willing to be here for you and walk with you, hand in hand, as we grow together, day by day.
I don’t have all the answers, but I do know this..
You’re worth everything to me and I look forward to spending my days building a future with you.
Storms will come and days might sometimes be hard, but you don’t have to face it alone anymore.
So, for now, let’s just take it slow.
We have plenty of time..forever is ours and dreams don’t have expirations.
Me, you and tomorrow..for always.
|Ravenwolf
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fate

 


A woman needs a man, a man needs a woman

 

A WOMAN NEEDS A MAN, AND A MAN NEEDS A WOMAN TO NEED HIM
A woman needs a man to cherish her.
A man needs a woman to cherish.
A woman needs a man to give her his leadership.
A man needs a woman to receive his leadership.
A woman needs a man to hold space for her vulnerability.
A man needs a woman to communicate with vulnerability.
A woman needs a man to provide for her and protect her.
A man needs a woman to provide for and protect.
A woman needs a man to receive his love.
A man needs a woman to give her love.
A woman needs a man to create a safe container.
A man needs a woman to respect his container.
A woman needs a man to receive pleasure.
A man needs a woman to give her pleasure.
A woman needs a man to be true to his word.
A man needs a woman to have faith in his word.
A woman needs a man to energetically penetrate her.
A man needs a woman to energetically penetrate.
A woman needs a man to always lead.
A man needs a woman to always submit.
A woman needs a man to help her heal.
A man needs a woman to inspire him to heal.
A woman needs a dominant man.
A man needs a radiant woman.
Men and women need each other.
These needs are not wants. They are needs.
They are just as important to a man and woman as light and water and soil is to a plant to survive and thrive.
Sure, a human won’t die if these needs aren’t met.
But they also won’t truly be living.
Ask yourself, are your needs being met?
Are you truly living?
Are you experiencing this kind of dream relationship where every need is fulfilled, and you are THRIVING?
No amount of career success or other life frills can properly satiate these needs, as much as some like to convince themselves otherwise.
The good news is that we can help you make the shifts you need to make, to get all of your needs met.
How? By learning how to fully meet a partner’s needs.
And that can only be done with polarity. By polarizing yourself.
A man stepping into his dominance; taking charge, embodying masculine energy, emotionally centering, and becoming competent to lead a woman to respect him as the leader.
A woman opening up into her radiance.; letting go, embodying feminine energy, letting down all guards vulnerably, and effortlessly inspiring a man to lead her with devotion.
That’s what we show men and women how to do in The Academy; our 6 month experiential group program. Using livestreamed roleplays, livestreamed self-reflection ‘missions’, and coaching support.
We are only looking for men and women who see this type of work as their highest priority, and want to begin their transformation NOW!
If that is you, send me a PM. Tell me your biggest problem you want help shifting in your love life.



Wednesday, November 24, 2021

yearly plans

 


I'm sorry

 


The pain of the masculine

 

There is a lot of conversation and awareness around the wounded feminine, but not many speak about the pain of the masculine. ☤

Most men carry a wound of never really experiencing how it feels to be completely RECEIVED by the feminine. ⠀

Both sexually and personally.⠀

An incredibly deep healing and transformation happens in a man when he is fully accepted by a woman’s heart, when he is received in her deep surrender, when she can hold him within the spaciousness of her womb, when her yoni is soft and entirely receptive to his cock… ⠀

Some men get overwhelmed by it initially, because they have never experienced it before. But if a woman has done her work of releasing sexual shame, reconnecting with her body and her inner knowing of how she can hold a man, she will be able to provide it for him. ⠀

! Not from the space of her inner wounded little girl, who did not stabilise in her sense of self worth.

🤍

But from the space of her inner priestess, who has healed her wounds and has the clarity to recognise the one who is ready for her Gift.⠀


Ultimately we are independent beings, capable of being complete and entirely self sufficient.⠀

And also… the masculine and feminine long for each other. ⠀

Because they love each other deeply. ⠀
And they have the keys that accelerate the other’s healing, growth and transformation.⠀

[This post is another one of my classics - repost from 2016]




Monday, November 22, 2021

not my job

 




Never above you...

 

"Never above you. Never below you. Always beside you." -Walter Winchell
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It takes real courage for a man to be humble enough to admit when he's wrong, to see where he needs to change and grow and take responsibility for himself without getting defensive. The ego is designed to protect us and often uses deflection, blame and denial so that we can avoid feeling bad about ourselves, but what we have to realize is that the ego has no place in a relationship.
Rather than ego, what a man needs is real empathy so he can do the work of learning how to be emotionally available and consistent in "showing up" when his partner needs him. How many men desire to be needed but when they actually are needed, they find an excuse to try to get out of what they're needed for? Yet, the man still often feels entitled to turn around and criticize his partner when she isn't taking care of him the way that he wants her to.
Respect isn't given, it's earned. Yes, it takes BOTH people doing their part to make the relationship work, but If you want to feel like a man and be a leader, you have to set the example, not make excuses. If you can't take care of her needs, especially emotionally, you can't expect her to trust you, that's the bottom line.
If you want her to be the woman you want, you have to be the man she needs, which means you can't be afraid of not being enough, you have to put forth the effort and learn who she really is, what is in her heart and how to love her the way she deserves to be loved. When you do that, you set her free to love you unconditionally - and she will, with all of her heart and soul.
-Joel Clemons Love, Life & Relationship Coach @the.gentleman.wolf
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stealing words

 


soulmates

 


savage in him

 


Sunday, November 21, 2021

Saturday, November 20, 2021

Friday, November 19, 2021

Wednesday, November 17, 2021